Gene Hackman, the beloved Oscar-winning actor, was found dead at his home in Santa Fe, New Mexico, last week. He was 95 years old. Alongside him were his wife, Betsy Arakawa, who was 65, and one of their three dogs. Authorities have ruled out carbon monoxide poisoning but are still awaiting toxicology results. Investigators are piecing together the timeline of the couple’s last days, looking through phone records and emails.
Hackman and Arakawa lived a quiet life in Santa Fe, far removed from the Hollywood spotlight. Friends described them as private yet friendly, often engaging in local community events and enjoying meals at nearby restaurants. Stuart Ashman, a longtime friend, shared that Hackman was humble despite his fame. “He was just a regular guy,” Ashman said, noting that Hackman had many fascinating stories about his Hollywood experiences.
Their friendship blossomed nearly 30 years ago during a community arts meeting. Hackman had been involved with the Georgia O’Keeffe Museum, where he served on the board from 1997 to 2004. Over time, Ashman became a part-time egg supplier for Hackman, who reciprocated with a landscape painting that Ashman initially hesitated to accept. Their bond deepened through shared interests, including Pilates classes.
Another friend, Doug Lanham, recounted how he met the couple at his restaurant, Jinja Bar & Bistro. Their connection grew when Arakawa showcased her cooking talents, leading to Hackman investing in the restaurant. He even contributed his artwork, which now hangs on the walls, including a large mural that sparked both admiration and critique from patrons.
In recent years, Hackman had slowed down, becoming more homebound and less active. Friends noted that while he showed signs of aging, Arakawa remained in good health, helping to keep him engaged with activities like puzzles and yoga. Their friends described them as a loving and supportive couple, always ready to lend a hand in their community.
The couple’s sudden passing has left many in Santa Fe mourning the loss of two kind souls who cherished their life together away from the glitz of Hollywood. The investigation into their deaths continues as friends and neighbors remember the joy and warmth they brought to their lives.