The devastating Eaton fire that swept through Altadena claimed the life of 86-year-old Miva Wheatley Friedli, a beloved grandmother and long-time resident of the area. For days, her family and friends held on to the hope that she might be lost somewhere safe, unaware of the tragedy that had befallen her home, which was completely destroyed in the blaze.
Friedli, who had Parkinson’s disease and was reportedly suffering from dementia, was born in Costa Rica and was one of 15 children. She married at a young age and moved to California to be closer to her family. Throughout her life, she raised three sons in her Mariposa Street home, which had been a central gathering place for family and friends for many years.
In the aftermath of the fire, her nephew Juan Gonzalez discovered her locked front gate amid the rubble of her home. Despite extensive search efforts, hope began to fade until January 15, just two days before Friedli’s birthday, when cadaver dogs found human remains in the debris. This grim discovery was a devastating blow to her family, who had been praying for her safe return.
Her sister, Carol Wheatley, expressed her anguish, stating, “I was hoping, praying, doing everything that she would be found, because I could not come to grips with the alternative option.” The remains found at the site have yet to be officially identified, pending DNA testing by the Los Angeles County medical examiner’s office.
Friedli was remembered by her family as a strong and independent woman with a vibrant personality. She worked in the medical field and later in child care, and was known for her devout Christian faith. Family members recall her as a loving and supportive figure, always ready to uplift those around her with positive words and encouragement.
Gonzalez fondly remembered his aunt as someone who treated him like her own child, recalling joyful memories of family outings and church services where he would often fall asleep during sermons. The loss of Friedli has left a profound void in the lives of her relatives, many of whom also lost their homes in the fire.
The community continues to mourn the loss, grappling with the impact of the Eaton fire, which not only destroyed homes but also took lives, leaving families to sift through the ashes of their past. Friedli’s story highlights the broader tragedy faced by many in the area, as residents work to rebuild their lives after the devastating events.